Angry Child? – Fix the Behavior, Not the Feelings

Many parents make the mistake of assuming that since their child’s behavior is connected to their feelings, fixing the feelings will fix the behavior. Unfortunately, nothing could be further from the truth. It’s critical for parents to understand that processing your child’s feelings while they are happening is not constructive. Children become overwhelmed with emotions, [...]

When Kids Get Violent – “There’s No Excuse For Abuse”

Violence is the extreme end of aggression. Remember that not all kids who are aggressive become violent. When children and teens use violence to get what they want-whether it’s punching a sibling in the stomach or punching a hole in the wall-it usually involves a scenario where they’re being told “no” to something they want [...]